I do not and refuse to check my man’s phone it makes no sense. I’m not going to be with a man if I feel like that I should be checking his phone, relationships are built on trust. Everyone I ask what’s the most important quality they want in a relationship the answer is usually “loyalty”. dogs are loyal to their owners, but if provoked they will bite the same person who feeds them. There is a difference in loyalty, honesty, and faithfulness, each word carries a different meaning. What I look for in a relationship is a good heart and we both have mutual understanding that loyalty, honesty, and faithfulness a requirement with no question no one should have to choose which they prefer to settle for just one of the qualities.
Yes, I know there is no one on this earth that is perfect, but that doesn’t mean that you have to settle for a certain “percentage” of someone. This post is short because, some of you are reading this and thinking, you could never find a mate that can give you all of that. And I will tell you that is a LIE put in your head and you accept it. Having a piece of a person IS NOT better than having someone at all. When a person is ready and mature enough to know that loyalty, honesty, and faithfulness are required without question only then can you build a healthy, trusting, and most of all loving relationship. However, if you have to check phones just check out of that relationship. And plus if you have time to check a phone, you could be checking your kids homework or checking something that’s adding up to making your life better.
However, if you have a legitimate reason to check your man or woman’s phone at least be married.