“Here you come again, just when I was about to make it work without you”. When I hear those lyrics in the song by Dolly Parton, “Here You Come Again,”. It makes me smile, because I believe that most of us have experienced something similar. For example, I had just ended a 2 year relationship (longest two years ever) so I was getting into a new routine, a routine that focused more on me. Then, there was a knock on my door and after a few months of not speaking and telling me that we could make it work and we couldn’t possibly just let two years just go down the drain….. Fortunately, I had no problem letting go, because I refuse to beg someone to treat me like somebody especially if I keep explaining the issues.
This happens all the time, right when you’re about to close the door on a relationship that just didn’t work out, and here comes the person usually when that person figures out what they were looking for was right there in you, the person that was there fighting for them. Now here they come probably looking better than ever. DO NOT fall for that shit, and understand if you go back you are now making yourself an option (not always the case some people just need a break). Remember, why the breakup happened, and I hate to say this, but tune back into how that person really was while in the relationship with you. So, catch yourself before that person has your heart wrapped right back around their finger, then goes all your senses and shaking you up….. so here he comes again and there you go.