When I meet someone new and we begin the journey of “getting to know each other” and this can apply to friendship or relationship, I always use the rule “treat others how you want to be treated”. I make my intentions clear and ask the other person of theirs. I am loyal to a fault, because I am honest to the T. And that is my biggest downfall or some may think that is a weakness. I consider it a strength because if I choose to fight for a friendship or a relationship that means that I see something in that person that others might not. I have friends and exes in low and high places, and that is how it should be diversity, I don’t discriminate when it comes to truly caring for people. However, if I feel like I am being used or I feel like I’m in a situation where a person just calls on me or communicates with me for just their enjoyment then….. I’m done and that person has got me totally fucked up. I know that people thrive off of this and it may be crazy but if I know that I am just an option in anyone’s life, no matter how much I care about that person or want to contact that person, (I’m guilty of sending random messages, when I miss a person) I always try to remember every technical device that we have access to works both ways. When I’m done, which takes a lot with a person that means even if you do reach out, all I’m going to be thinking about is I was good to you, I was there for you, I was honest with you, I truly cared for you, and you threw me away. Caring for people is not a weakness, it is a strength like I said before however, it is a blessing and a curse. When I’m done with someone it hurts my feelings, because I see beauty in all that is created between a person and I even if it is in a short period of time. There are some people that we all need to be done with. But when I’m done……. I’m done.
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I love the fact that I can blog about my adventures in love!!!! I'm a country girl that has a big heart and an open mind. Which has gotten me into some amazing things good, bad, and sometimes things that make me think.... Wait What?! I believe everything happens for a reason and so it has landed me here with enough adventures and some that will come in the future maybe even tomorrow who knows. I'm thankful for every experience! View all posts by K. Brooks