Okay…. Bye

I remember a guy breaking up with me and when he got to my front door he turned to me like, “aren’t you going to say anything”, but all I could say was, “okay, bye”! If I am not putting up a fight through my actions or words to make the relationship work, obviously at […]

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That Was Crazy

I don’t believe in love at first sight, I’m not saying it is not possible… I just don’t believe it can happen like that. So, it wasn’t a love at first sight situation at all we saw each other and exchanged numbers and started communicating on the regular. I hesitated hanging out with him because […]

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At All

Listen! (or read lol)….. I could care less if what I say or do hurts anyone’s feelings, only because I believe people have become so soft and sensitive and I’ve gotten to the point and I think EVERYBODY should stop taking things so personally. Life is crazy for all of us and everyone has a […]

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The only thing constant in this world that we live in (especially these days) is CHANGE!! There is nothing that we can do about it, but if you are a person who has always accepted the concept that “change” is real you don’t panic when it starts to happens. I once hated change because it […]

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Nobody Knows

People really piss me off when they act like they have been through every step of life with me. I only know my story personally and only hear what others choose to tell about their own lives, and only then can I empathize. Sympathy happens if something very similar has taken place in my life […]

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To Know Him

To know him is to both love and hate him. To love him is a feeling of complete bliss and happiness that you don’t want to end, but in the back of your mind you know it will end eventually. To hate him feels like you will go out of your way to do things […]

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I’ll Take Your Man

Dear Sis, I promise this is coming straight from a place of love. If you really believe in your heart of hearts that the man you are now with left his woman JUST FOR YOU is a reality, sadly you are beyond delusional! You didn’t do anything but acquire another woman’s problems. If you’re in […]

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I love tootsie roll candy always have and always will, even though the older I get the less of the less I can eat. When I met him,  at the age that I was I could eat a whole bag within my 5 hour shift at my very first job in the mall at the age […]

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Baby Mama Drama…

The thing is not all baby mama’s are not crazy, actually a lot of us are sane. We trying to live our life and co-parent like we should because we understand that the CHILD is the most important person in the situation. So shit may have went down between the two people that got together […]

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Easier Said…. Than Done

No matter if it is family, friendship, or relationship sometimes we have to let go of people that aren’t good for us. We outgrow people all the time and it is normal, but it is needed if we want to grow into the who we are supposed to be. I don’t think we understand, (I […]

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