When I meet someone new and we begin the journey of “getting to know each other” and this can apply to friendship or relationship, I always use the rule “treat others how you want to be treated”. I make my intentions clear and ask the other person of theirs. I am loyal to a fault, […]Read More You Win, I Quit!
I have and ex that tries to hit me up every now and again to “check” on me. Basically his ass is just being nosey, and depending on the day I will entertain this ex to make sure he keeps the contact short. Most of you will ask why even entertain him….. I guess because […]Read More Remember
Dear Ex or Exes, My dad always told me,”Nana (his nickname for me) if someone give you their ass to kiss, KICK them in it. But, I didn’t know it would apply to my relationships with men that I thought I cared for, the lies we tell ourselves when it comes to love. Anyway, well I […]Read More Boy Bye, but Be Great
I hate when you start to get serious with a dude and he says, “I love you”, and you already know that you love the dude, but you waited for him to say it. I always have the same response, “don’t break my heart”. That is all I ask for do not break my heart and […]Read More Don’t Break My Heart
Yes, “I love you”, is my favorite lie that women and men use to sometimes manipulate a person’s mind. I find it quite humorous, but some fall for it and that’s fine too. I just notice that it comes at the most unexpected times, like when you’re questioning if the other person really likes you, […]Read More Words
When I was around 15 yrs old I was messing around with this older guy, (I was a freshman and he was a senior) the reason why I say “messing around is because he had a girlfriend who had graduated the year prior and I of course had a boyfriend. We were kids we didn’t […]Read More Stop It
A couple years ago I was invited to a get together and only women were invited, (I definitely appreciated the invitation) I’m still not quite sure why I got invited, but hey I learned something that night…… Did you know that some women are actually taught that NO MATTER WHAT your man does you should […]Read More For Better or For Worse
It was so dark in that movie theater, but I could feel someone watching me. And all I was thinking and praying was whoever is watching me was “please don’t follow me home”! The movie ends the lights come back on and I could still feel the eyes, but now with the lights on I could […]Read More Bad Timing
(Singing) “How did you get here”. Like, seriously where in the hell did you come from. Have you ever met a person that just popped up in your life by chance and contributed absolutely nothing. I know every thing and person comes into your life for a season and reason…… but there is always that […]Read More What Was The Point?
I do not and refuse to check my man’s phone it makes no sense. I’m not going to be with a man if I feel like that I should be checking his phone, relationships are built on trust. Everyone I ask what’s the most important quality they want in a relationship the answer is usually […]Read More Checking Phones….